Friday, April 24, 2009

parting is such sweet sorrow...

so yeah; in about 21 hours; Garbo will be on her way back to the UK.

and i'm absolutely Gutted that she is.

obviously.

i've been telling her all the ways she could come and stay in australia after her China thing...

argh.

i could marry her.
seriously.

my bed's gonna feel so empty - my room's gonna be uncomfortably bare, now that her stuff's gone.

i really wish there was an instant way i could get her to stay...

unexpected pregnancy anyone?

NO, helll noooo.

both her parents and mine would KILL ME.

kill me DEAD!

twice!

so yeah; in short.

my life is arse at the moment; but hopeffully i'll get over it.

sorry stephen we havent skyped with you; 2 weeks is such a short time.
and sorry we didnt do any blogtv shows or anything; cos none of yall woudlve been awake at our time.

sigh.. looks like it's gonna be me and an empty bed again for a while...

peace.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

ULTURA SUPAH COORUH AWESUMUH DAY!

Yay! Garbo's in melbourne!
i think i've pretty much stressed the fact that she's here.
twitter, FB, dailybooth, youtube... where else?

eeeeeeeee!

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Dearest Leah

wow. time flies huh?

Btw get ready for a nostalgia fest.

i cant believe its been 11 years since i met you at GCF for that summer sunday school thingie (Jesus' Kids; totally His! >.<)
and then to my surprise you enrolled at MY school - fate had it in for us.

Even though i lost contact with you for a good 7-8 years, i somehow never forgot you, maybe because i had a thing for you then - i dunno - but you can imagine how psyched i was going back to visit the Phils. only to find out that you've moved back here to Aus. :S

Then i got your YM, then your Msn, and before you know it - i'm visiting you in Sydney. I swear, even though the visits i've made (2 and counting :P) have been somewhat short - they've been the most fun.

i know we've had our moments, i know i've made promises to you that i ended up breaking and even though we're now starting to live our separate lives; i'll never forget the times we've had together.

(this is starting to become some sort of long winded break-up speech :P)

Basically i just wanna say that you're a great girl and an even greater friend. I love you heaps and i hope we stay friends till we're old and wrinkly.



See ya when i See ya huh?
-Ralphie

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Chivalry isnt Dead, but it sure is neglected

i'm sure most of you that read this know of Natalie aka NDTitanLady of youtube.
and have probably watched her video of her worst date ever.
if you havnt yet - watch it.



now that you've watched that.
lets get into it.

sometimes it's not our fault.

you might be going;
"are you crazy? that guy was an arse!"

yeah, he was.
but other men tend to become Mr. Jerkface because some women are equally Jerky.

yeah - that's right.

sometimes women who are too "Empowered", too engrossed in the "independent woman movement" give chivalry a bad name.

i'm not saying that women have to be confined to the kitchen or whatever (woman! make me a sandwich! lol) - by all means, be self sufficient, be independent. But when a nice guy opens a door for you or pays the bill; don't lose your head thinking he's looking down at you or he's making you feel inferior.

ladies - pull your head outta your arse. he's just being nice - it means he likes you.

thats why sometimes guys can be jerks without knowing it - because they've experienced the "Miss Jerkfaces" so many times they dont know what to do to be nice anymore.

they think twice when holding the door open for her, or letting her go in first... the small stuff that men were expected to do a couple of decades ago.

when i was small, my parents would teach me on how to be a gentleman, they taught me that when you're walking with a woman - doesnt matter what her age is - you always walk on the side that's closest to the road. so if your walking on the right side of the road - you walk on her left.
so if a car comes speeding towards you - you can push her out of the way.

yeah? yeah.

back then, if you didn't pay for the date, YOU were the Jerkface.
back then, if you didn't go up to the door to pick up your date for the prom, you would be considered an arse (and the parentals would have a thing or two to say about you)

but now, feminism's just gone way over the top. i believe in equal rights for everyone, but that doesnt have to cancel out being nice and polite.

phew... yep that's it for me.

take care of yourselves.
and for the love of pete; dont be so uptight.